Do you need money to travel?
Michael and I got married May 18, 2013. At that time we were both working full time making close to $80,000 annually together. (That is BIG money for 24yr olds-heck that’s big money now) We paid for the wedding ourselves and as you may know weddings typically aren’t cheap. We are both the oldest on all sides of our family so naturally we were “expected” to have a big ordeal of a wedding. Although we had a quaint beach wedding-reception on site, we still forked out nearly ~$10,000 easy! (I refuse to remember the exact amount) So, here we are starting our marriage in debt, when we really just wanted money to travel with.
Now we had $7,800 in wedding debt between the wedding venue and the rings. The rest came from $8,000 left to pay on Michael’s truck-the car payment was $500+ monthly, medical bills totally ~$1760, family debt of $500, Verizon cellular charge for switching Michael to ATT-$700, *eye roll* Grad school loans for me of $14,000. Doing the math this totals to ~$32, 760. Wait! It gets better.
Fall of 2013, Michael decided to return to college and finish his undergraduate degree. In order to do this he had to quit his job because he worked out of town too much. So August rolls around and I am still in Grad School but working full time and he is jobless. We cut our income in half and were forced to do the same to our lifestyle. But how?
This is where Dave Ramsey comes in play. We started “Financial Peace University” in September/October 2013. For the first time we began to understand how to budget and prioritize properly. The first thing we had to do was cut our spending down in order to find the money we supposedly had. After putting $1000 away for emergencies we began working hard for the next year!
Michael donated plasma for money (yes, blood money). I worked as a summer adjunct professor and taught a night class for nutrition, in addition to my 40+ hr/week hospital job. ( We were dedicated!) We switched from smartphones to flip phones, got rid of cable we never watched, stopped our internet, used our apartment’s WIFI (Yay for being close to the office), and sold Michael’s truck. We lived close to the college so we became a 1 car family! We sold our electronics, clothes, beanie babies, video games, and train horn-anything we thought would bring in cash to pay down the debt!
Thankfully (our prayers were answered) in October 2013, Michael found a part time job in the mall-within walking distance of school and home! It is amazing having more income again but working in retail all weekend is a big sacrifice. In the months following we “seasoned” our apartment by adding blackout blinds to reduce heat, lowered our door sweep so air couldn’t seep out, and placed weather stripping on our windows and sliding glass door to retain our A/C. This began saving us $20-50 a month in energy cost that first year.
changing our phones saved us $200/month
selling his truck for what we owed was $8,000 plus an extra $500/monthly in our pockets
our online selling brought in ~$2000
no internet or cable saved us ~$100/monthly
having just 1 car saved us ~$300/month between gas and insurance we were spending on the truck
We also began working out at our home gym and outdoors to save $20-200/month in gym memberships
We paid off the family debt, medical bills, and Verizon bill first. Then we tackled the wedding debt, and lastly, we sold his truck totaling ~$18,500. Then I traded in my cougar for a family friendly jeep patriot.
We use Dave’s gazelle budget, now called everydollar.com to budget monthly. I try to plan ahead for events or date nights each month along with the usual bills. We openly talk about our budget and are mostly on the same page. 😉
Presently, Michael is 9 semesters into college (including summer) and we have paid out of pocket for his schooling thus far. We also use bookrenter.com and chegg.com to RENT school books and typically save $200-500 a semester! While I’m not engulfed in couponing I do shop clearance and use online codes when available. We cook at home most days and go out for drinks maybe once a week . I completed Grad school in 2014-just paying off my loans now.
We currently have ~$28,500 in debt which is better than the $53,000 we would still have. After almost a year of being strict on our budget we decided to push PAUSE on our debt snowball and save for traveling instead. While we are not debt free yet we are getting older everyday. Neither of us wants life to slip away or for us to be too decrepit to hike all over the planet, besides we are kid free for now.
One option was to continue to pay off debt and delay travel or the other way around. We made a hard-thought decision to travel. I wish that was constantly traveling but we still have to work and Michael is still in college. Even though, I am proud of the debt we have paid down and the 3 countries and numerous cities we have explored thus far! Life is a marathon not a sprint! Although we have loosened our budget in some aspects, we are still strict on saving for our adventures. It is NOT EASY but it is always WORTH IT!
When you work hard for what you have it can NEVER be taken away from you. Through this process we have argued and fought but have become better friends, lovers, spouses, and teammates together!
Be well and Travel often! What have you done to be able to gather the money for traveling?
**This is not a sponsored post, all opinions are my own**
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